Scenario~ Your friend is 33 weeks pregnant( that's 7 weeks from her due date, 6 if she makes it to her induction date, that's to say she doesn't go into labor early) You've decided to take a job as a night stocker and want her to watch your kid. Are you expecting your friend to watch your kid when she gets back from the hospital? WHY in the name of all that is good in this world would you take a position that requires you to rely on only one person? There IS NO ONE else who can watch your kid during these ridiculous hours , your friend will be in the hospital a minimum of 3 days provided nothing goes wrong and she has a normal delivery, are you expecting her to just jump right back into watching your kid so you can work?
What I want to know, is how the hell do you justify this in your own head that it's going to be ok, not realizing that you're going to lose your job and blame it on your friend cause you're a psycho hose beast and took a job that isn't really an option as far as child care goes. How does this make sense? Especially if your kid doesn't (I know she wont) want to comply with how your friends house is ran. Early bed times, actual rules, someone WHO WONT baby your 8 year old because they're a whiney spoiled brat, who is too freaking tired all the time and has a challenge enough taking care of her own kids at this point because she's so freaking pregnant it's ridiculous.
Where the hell does this make sense?
Honestly, I'm having a hard enough time trying to find someone who can watch my kids while I'm in the hospital, I sure the hell wouldn't as a recently post partum friend to still watch my kid overnight when they have a toddler, a 9 year old and a brand new baby to take care of.
I think she's expecting that some how I can just magically do all this and is going to pitch a fit and be a bitch when I tell her that I wont be able to when the new baby comes. How is it fair to me to have to deal with this bullshit or for that matter to be put in this situation.
Why wouldn't she have taken a day time position where she has other options as far as people to watch her kid go?
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