So this stupid problem I'm having with this stupid friend who, yes, I know, I need to just get rid of. This is becoming a bigger issue. Yesterday she didn't ask if her kid could stick around and play she TOLD me her kid was going to stick around and play. I don't mind being asked if things are ok to do when it involves my time and my life but it does bother me if you TELL me that this or that is going to happen.
Still I wasn't going anywhere or doing anything so it wasn't a big deal. SO I thought.
It was, Rex is mad. He's sick of people telling me rather than asking me to do things for them. I know it makes me a door mat and a putz , I'm just way too tired and undermedicated for me to make a big issue of anything right now. So Rex is so sick of this that he's made it an issue between the two of us. This is actually where I've been backed into a corner pretty much and now have to say something because now its effecting my marriage.
I just wish people would think. That would be nice. Think about being considerate toward people who are doing you favors, more than one at this point.
Don't tell people what's going to happen, ask them, it comes off a lot better in the end.
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