Tuesday, March 2, 2010

I swear some people

MY daughters grandmother is trying to keep her from visiting us for spring break because she found out that Neoma wants to live with me. WTF is that all about? I mean seriously? NO you can't see your mom and your brothers because you don't want to live with your dad? How is that even rational? She developed this thought on her own. I've never pushed her to move in with me or want to, she wants to, I don't think anyone should be punished for that. She's a smart girl and see's what's going on around her. Maybe if her dad didn't yell all the time or smoke pot in front of her or sleep when he's supposed to be spending time with her maybe, just maybe she would want to live with him. Fact is, she doesn't. I don't think she should be punished for that AND it's not her "mawmaw's call to say whether she visits with me or not" She is not treated badly or neglected up here. There is no safety reasons why she should be denied her spring break visit. It's all because "mawmaw" doesn't like that maybe just maybe Neoma has her own mind and her own opinions and doesn't want to live with her dad. People really piss me off.
And I'm supposed to be avoiding stress according to my doctor, how can you avoid stress when you're surrounded by people who don't make sound decisions that make sense?

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