I wish people would give me more credit than they do

I'm not stupid. I'm not a rocket scientist by any means but I'm not stupid. Some how Neoma's dad seems to think that he can just up and move to NC and I won't find out why or who he's moving there for and that he's what? going to magically just come get Neoma and move her there without my consent? That he can just take her where ever he wants? Without consulting me or the family courts for that matter? Oh he has another thing coming, according to multiple websites and wv family law, he has to inform the court if he moves. Since he has failed to do so and just left Neoma in the care of her great aunt and grandmother this is going to look bad to the courts, the fact that he's neglected to tell me or for that matter to let me know that he has plans to move her there is not going to look good on him either.
Next month I will be filing a motion to change or modify the current custody order, which might I add was crap to begin with. I am going to at the least, this is the least get an established visitation order in place to protect myself from him thinking he can just take her and fall off the face of the earth or keep her from her usual visits. Of course this could fall even further in my favor as he isn't employed or have a home of his own there and the courts, if he shows up at all, will rule for her to live with me instead and he would have established visitation.
Neoma informed me yesterday that "mawmaw" has already told scott that if he does not find a job and a home of his own that she will send Neoma to live with me. I don't know if she realizes that Neoma living with me would definitely benefit her far more than letting him run willy nilly with Neoma. I have a stable home, I am focused on keeping their grades good, I am a dedicated parent who rarely goes out or even has company for that matter. I also live closer than NC and I'm not going to keep "mawmaw" from visiting her. I am not going to keep her from visiting, that's not who I am. So hopefully they will weigh all this stuff out and just send her to live with me where she's going to have the kind of home she needs to be in. I'm going to have to do a lot of praying that this works in my favor mostly for Neoma's sake. She really needs this.