I know, I never post anything happy on here. Sorry I have a lot of stress. Today was one of those days. Things are going good in my marriage, I'm probably getting A's again after my finals are over. I'm taking a break from school because I really need to.
Today I got a notice from the state of ohio saying the state of WV bureau of child support is taking ALL of our tax money. Yeah there are some of you that are going to say it's my own damn fault because I can't budget in the money every month. It's near impossible to between bills and rent and food to be able to afford to do much of anything. I don't know how many times I've explained my situation to any of you and why Neoma lives in WV with her dad but it's bullshit and do you know what he's going to do with that money? He's going to take it and spend it on pawn items, beer and pot. Yeah that's right, not Neoma, shit for him and when he gets the bulk of the tax money he is going to try to take my daughter to NC to move in with his psycho ex girlfriend from like 9 years ago who has had him thrown in jail over night for domestic violence here in Ohio, he in turn faked that she beat him up and had her thrown in jail for the night for the same thing. These people are toxic together. Anyway, my situation is that he had a heroine problem, yes that's right HE had the problem, I don't do drugs. He decided to put himself in rehab and it was going to take a few days before they could admit him and he went into withdrawal and was hospitalized. The hospital called his nut job of a mom and she came up and took him and took my daughter promising to have her back at the end of the summer for school, then proceeded to call me and say that they enrolled her in school in wv and she wasn't going to be returned because I was a bad mother because she never had a sheet on her bed. I don't know about any of you but when a kid kicks their sheets off their bed every night you tend to want to just leave the sheet where they kicked it off and if they want it they'll take it. So I was manipulated the shit out of to feel like I deserved to just leave her with them even though he's a freaking junkie and doesn't like to work. Everyday I regret that I didn't file kidnapping charges. They took her without any custody agreement or consent at all. They keep her from me when ever they don't feel like letting her see me. HE was on welfare because again he doesn't like to work so the dept of welfare went after me for child support and I called to see if I could reschedule my court date because I didn't have a car to get to wv they said no. He DIDNT even show up to this hearing I couldn't make it to and they awarded him custody of her because he had physical custody of her. They didn't reduce or even find out what my income was which I had NO income when this case happened and so I owe like 5k in child support. So they're taking our taxes. To give to him for child support that he doesn't deserve. His great aunt has been housing them and he feeds them with food stamps, works a crappy little job at a rest area and spends his paychecks on pot, pills, beer and stuff he has in a pawn shop that he put there to get money for pot, pills and beer. Everything I have I give to my kids. Everything Rex makes goes toward giving them a better life, clothes and food. I spend hundreds of dollars every time Neoma is here on clothes and things for her but that never gets credited toward the child support I owe. So tell me why my husband busts his ass and when we file our taxes with our tax credits for our kids it goes straight to some asshole who isn't going to spend it on my daughter? Plus he gets to go and file his taxes and claim her and get that as well. Do I get to do anything special for my boys? No. He said the last time I talked to him that he'd return half of it to me but anyone who knows him will tell you, this includes his great aunt, that he's a liar and it'll be gone as soon as it gets to him. Thanks for listening to my rant.
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